Fruitful Fellowship at the Feast!
by Norma Terrell
Who is responsible for greeting our guests? Who is
responsible for encouraging visitors to become members? On average, how long
does it take for a first-time visitor to decide whether or not they will come
back? What is the most important question you can ask a visitor? What are people
truly seeking when they decide to make a church
visit?These and other questions were
posed to Northaven members by Beth LaBella at last Sunday evening’s Feast
of Friendship. A feast it was! Over 80 of our Northaven family gathered in the
atrium, bringing with them an array of delicious covered dishes (something we
Methodists have long been known for!), healthy appetites, and friendly, spirited
conversation. Following the meal, we moved into the sanctuary for some
stimulating group activities designed to provide a springboard for discussion
about what we do at Northaven to welcome the
stranger/visitor.The event’s theme
came directly from Bishop Robert Schnase’s book,
Five Practices of Fruitful
Congregations. In section one, called
“Radical Hospitality,” he examines through his personal experience
and observation what churches do to provide true hospitality to visitors. In one
of the evening’s group activities, each group was challenged to come up
with ways we offer hospitality through all of our body parts: the head, the
chest, the arms and legs, etc. Wonderful and concrete ideas, such as walking up
to someone we don’t know (feet) and listening to a person’s story
(ears), came from this activity. Suggestions from the group were made to add
greeters at the south and north ends of our building, to add visitor parking
spaces in the north parking lot, and to improve the “welcome
visitors” signage and visibility of the information tables.
A big thanks goes to Beth LaBella for
her excellent planning and executing of this event, and thanks to her team of
helpers from Program Council for their many contributions to the
evening.Now for some
answers!Who is responsible for greeting
our guests?All of
us!Who is responsible for
encouraging visitors to become
members?Again, all of
us!On average, how long does it take
for a first-time visitor to decide whether or not they will come
back?Just a few minutes! However,
follow-up during the week can sway their
decision.What is the most important
question you can ask a visitor?What
brings you to Northaven today?What
are people truly seeking when they decide to make a church
visit?Affiliation - a way and a place
to belong.It is up to each one of us
to welcome them just as Christ welcomes us!
Posted: Wednesday - April 16, 2008 at 01:19 PM
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