A Pastoral Response to Recent Judicial Council Decisions
Weighing in on the issues that weigh on all
of us
Last week, the Judicial Council of the United
Methodist Church --the UMC's highest legal body-- released a docket-full of
decisions related to the life of the church. Those decisions have since sent
shockwaves through the church.I have
been in extensive dialogue with leaders in the church and respected mentors of
mine, attempting to formulate a response to these decisions. After a period of
reflection and discernment, it seems to me that the response I will make
necessitates several
parts.First, I want to speak
as a pastor, whose church is deeply committed to ideals of inclusion and
justice.The most shocking of the
decisions is Judicial Council Decision #1032, regarding a
pastor's right to use "discretion" in who may or may not join a United Methodist
Church. While I'll offer some information about the case in another blog entry, the gist of the decision is
that any homophobic United Methodist pastor is now free to discriminate against
gay and lesbian persons when it comes to membership in a United Methodist
Church.This ruling has caused shock and
anger by many in the United Methodist Church. I commend to you the fine pastoral
response that has been released by the Reconciling Ministries Network. You can
read it
here.This ruling has already
brought a swift and unanimous condemnation by our Council of
Bishops. I am personally pleased to read their swift and emphatic
denunciation of this Judicial Council ruling. However, that condemnation does
not overturn this ruling. And so it is, for now, the law of the land in United
Methodist churches.The first response I
want to make is to our own members of Northaven Church. These rulings --coming
as they do the same week we move into our new building-- fill us with rage,
sadness, confusion, and lament. The disconnect between this ruling at the
general church level and the inclusion we participate in at Northaven could not
be greater. I share the sadness, anger,
and confusion that many of you feel. Some of you have experienced, at other
churches, the very kind of exclusion in this "court case." You have told me
your stories. You have shared with me the deep pain of being excluded from
church membership or leadership in other churches. Some of you are at Northaven
Church because you were excluded by other pastors and other
churches.So, you are left wondering,
"How could this happen in the same denomination that also gives us
Northaven?!!"Believe me, I find myself
asking the same question
today.Let me assure all
Northaven members and friends of
this:This
decision has NO effect on Northaven Church, its ministry, its witness for
inclusion, or its future planning. Nothing in this decision limits our
ability to be the inclusive community we have always been. Nothing in this
decision restricts our ability to be the voice of reconciliation within our
walls and in the greater community. You may have all understood that to be the
case, but I wanted to be sure and say this in a clear and unambiguous
way.Actually, to say it "doesn't affect
us" is not quite true, is it? It affects greatly. Many of you have been calling
and emailing me in your anger, confusion and grief. We cannot help but be
affected by this wrongheaded and homophobic decision. It affects us because we
are again pained and saddened by the actions of the general church. It affects
us because all of us at Northaven, gay and straight, grieve the fact that once
again gays and lesbians are being used as political pawns. Gays and lesbians
are, once again, being talked about without their consent and without their
input.I hope you will join me, first and
foremost, in praying for gay men and lesbians who are now faithful visitors and
members of other United Methodist churches --in Dallas and around the nation--
and who may now be at serious risk. This ruling allows homophobic pastors the
"excuse" they need to exclude gay men and lesbians. My fear is that it will also
be used as an excuse against persons who are already members in good standing at
many other churches. This would be wrong, sinful, and unjust. But given this
ruling, it could happen. So, please pray for all these
persons.We are planning a time of
information sharing, lament, and making plans of action 7 p.m. Sunday, November
13 at Northaven Church. We are calling this event:
"Reflection, Lament, and Response:
Unpacking the Judicial Council
Decisions."More details as they
become available. I hope you will
attend.Finally, it should be
acknowledged that many of us are tired of the struggles. We are tired of the
feeling that nothing is changing for the better. We are tired, and perhaps we
even cringe a little, every time the issues come up again. Especially here at
Northaven Church, the disparity between the health of our particular church, the
growth we are experiencing, the inclusion we stand for; and what we see in the
general church seems very great
indeed.But perhaps, in some way too deep
for words, these events happen at just this time to remind us of what is at
stake. If ever there was a time for churches like Northaven, the time is now. If
ever there was a need, the need is now. And yet, that need is a hard burden to
bear. It wears us down. Perhaps some of us would rather we just ignore what's
going on in the general church. Perhaps some of us are coming to believe the
general church cannot be redeemed. Perhaps we no longer
care.Jesus' life speaks to us at this
moment. Jesus was a suffering servant who had many burdens to
bear.......the condemnation of religious
leaders of his day....the incompetence and
misunderstanding of his own
disciples....personal pains (such as the death
of his cousin) even while his ministry called him to serve
others.Jesus' suffering was redeemed
through a resurrection that offers us all an inescapable joy. And perhaps
through choosing to walk with our suffering, our pain, our sense of abandonment,
we too can yet find that our suffering will be transformative for the church and
world. Perhaps our calling in this time is to the life of the suffering servant
who society rejected.Ghandi once said,
"Be the change you hope to see in the
world."That's
a powerful way to live, because it assumes that only through living out
the things we believe can we show others they have nothing left to fear. But
it's also a painful way to live, because the "change we hope to see" has
not yet been born, and perhaps is sometimes even hard to glimpse. Being the
change we hope to see in the world may well lead to that suffering road Jesus
once walked. Jesus' suffering led to
transformation and new life. Let us continue to hope and pray that ours will,
too.Grace and
Peace,Eric Folkerth
Posted: Friday - November 04, 2005 at 04:38 PM
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