Fifty Years of Faith: The De Wiksten Years
Northaven Remembers the Years
1977-1983
Northaven will celebrate the ministry of DeForrest
Wiksten on July 16
as we remember his six years of devotion to our
community. De served as pastor from 1977 to 1983. He served as Counseling
Minister of the Central and North Texas Conferences prior to his appointment to
Northaven and had taught Pastoral Care and Counseling at Perkins.
One of the characteristics of De’s
ministry was great emphasis placed on children and family, with many special
picnics and retreats to strengthen those ties. New programs were implemented,
including the Brown Bag Retired Men’s Group (which met for lunch),
Women’s Book Study (which met every month and soon expanded into an
evening group), and the Northaven Players, a drama group featuring members of
the congregation. Many new ideas were flying around during this time. An
intergenerational Sunday school for the month of August was begun. Alternative
Christmas giving was discussed and put into action. A group from Georgia called
Koinonia visited Northaven to share their philosophy of living a Christian life.
The Care Corps was started in June 1978 in an attempt to reach out to the entire
congregation and to respond in time of personal crisis or distress.
Janet Wiksten was consecrated as a diaconal
minister in Christian education in 1979 and was appointed to the position of
Director of Children’s Education in the church. Jan introduced the
children’s sermon time at Northaven.
A
committee with the strange name of ARAC (Ambience Renewal Action Committee)
began looking at designs for renovation of the buildings. Northaven’s
education building had been built as a stand-alone structure, with an open
breezeway joining it to the sanctuary. ARAC evaluated improvements to the
sanctuary and the education building and presented a final plan. In 1981 a
“Begin with Goodbye Sanctuary Supper” was held as Northaven services
moved to Temple Shalom for six weeks while the sanctuary was renovated and the
breezeway was enclosed to form the atrium. An area outside the atrium was
designated as a memorial garden for cremated remains. The move back to the
sanctuary occurred on Palm Sunday, led by a new standing banner made from bells
and ribbons donated by the Sunday school children.
It is likely that De was the first Northaven
minister to focus on the sexuality issue when Northaven hosted a conference on
homosexuality in 1978. Four other local congregations and the Dallas Gay
Political Caucus helped with planning and direction of the conference. In his
opening remarks, De said “Some people have indicated that we were getting
into deep water with an event like this. Our reply is…yes, it is deep
water. But we feel that the waters of baptism are often deep, sometimes muddy
and often turbulent”.
De, Janet and
their children moved from Northaven to First UMC in Wichita Falls in 1983 and
then to Plymouth Park UMC in Irving. When De retired from the ministry, he
returned to Perkins as Director of Admissions. He and Janet joined the
McElvaneys as retired pastors and spouses associated with Northaven.
Posted: Monday - July 03, 2006 at 03:31 PM
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